How to Be More Confident: An Interview With Confidence Coach Jo Emerson

Confidence is the key to everything we do in life. That’s why we make unique and remarkable pieces so you can showcase your individual flair everywhere you go! But sometimes, even with the most magnificent clothes, it can be hard to raise your self-esteem from a slump. That's why we’ve teamed up with confidence coach Jo Emerson to help all you fabulous folk get your #mojo back! She's got ten top tips to raise your self-esteem right up to the rooftops.

So, are you ready to become your most confident self?

Here we go.

Who is Jo Emerson?

Jo Emerson is an award-winning international confidence coach and the author of Flying for Beginners - a proven system for lasting self-confidence. She has also written two online courses, which have taught thousands how to be more confident.

Jo is a regular contributor to national and international press and has appeared on Channel 5’s The Wright Stuff and BBC Radio 4 Woman’s Hour. She is a fellow believer in Joe Browns’ values, with her mission in life being to help everybody uncover their own unique and authentic selves - believing in yourself is where confidence lives! Like us, Jo strives to help remarkable people embrace their individuality throughout their day-to-day lives.

Jo's Top Ten Expert Tips On How to Be More Confident

Whether you’re dusting off the cobwebs from your favourite outfits or indulging in a wardrobe revamp, following Jo’s top 10 tips will be sure to whisk you off to confidence island!

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1. Manage Your Mind

We all have a critical voice narrating our lives, but you don’t have to believe what it says! Critical voices are usually lying to you, so catch those thoughts, ask yourself what your kindest, wisest friend might say, and believe that instead. Your self-esteem will soar!

2. Do YOU

If you try to be like someone else, you will lose your sense of authenticity, which will destroy your confidence. Do you! Be you! You are a unique and wonderful part of this entire universe. Shine your own light brightly.

3. Quit Comparing

Comparing yourself to other people will either make you feel ‘less than’ them or ‘more than’ them. Both are awful for your confidence because you are comparing how you feel on the inside to how they are presenting on the outside. It’s an unfair, ungrounded comparison. So, stop comparing yourself to others and instead seek to find inspiring people to motivate you to become more fully yourself. After all, it’s called self-esteem, not someone else-esteem!

4. Get Outside

We were not made to sit down and look at screens in artificial light all day. Get outside, walk, breathe deeply, and watch nature as it goes about its business. There’s a beautiful sense of ‘okay-ness’ in nature, and when we see that, we feel calmer and more confident!

5. Wear Clothes You Like

When I lacked confidence, I chose clothes that I thought would make me look thinner or more attractive to others. What a waste of time that was! Today, I choose to wear clothes I actually like. Clothes that feel good on me, that I feel comfortable in and clothes that boost my self-esteem. In short, dress for you, not anyone else.

6. Smile

Smiling at people will give you little connections throughout the day that will boost your self-esteem. A simple smile is the first step to creating real human bonds that enrich our lives. Smiling also produces happy hormones in your brain, which, in turn, give you a shot of confidence.

7. Do Things You Enjoy

Find time every day to do something you enjoy. Take a bath, have a walk, watch your favourite box set, cuddle your kids, eat a lovely meal, read a good book, call your best friend—whatever makes your day feel special. Taking half an hour each day to treat yourself will grow your self-esteem.

8. Be Kind to Yourself

Become your own cheerleader. Encourage yourself daily, tell yourself you’re doing well, praise yourself when you achieve something, and rest when you need to. When you become your own best friend, you will feel so much better about who you are and your place in this world.

9. Learn How to Say ‘NO’

Many people with low self-confidence have become people-pleasers who fear saying ’no’ in case other people won’t like them. But saying ‘yes’ when you want to say ’no’ means you are denying yourself and your truth. The best way to learn to like yourself is to start prioritising your own needs, honouring what you want, and only saying ‘yes’ if you really want to do something, NOT because you think someone might like you more if you do.

10. Make a List

Start a list of five things you like about yourself and five things you are grateful for each day. Add to this list daily and read it through each evening. This focus on positivity will really help your confidence.

For more tips on how to feel confident and boost self-esteem, read Jo’s blog!

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Self-Esteem Tips From the Joe Browns Team

Jane Reik, Joe Browns Buying Director, shares her thoughts on dressing confidently:

“The secret to dressing confidently is to feel comfortable. The more comfortable you feel in your outfit, the more you enjoy what you're doing, be that at work or a night out with the girls. There is nothing worse than wearing a pair of shoes that go with your outfit but that you can't actually walk or dance in!

“My personal tip is to dress for the woman you're going to be that day. Here at Joe Browns, the buying and design team work hard to find prints, fabrics, and shapes that make women walk that bit taller and laugh that bit louder when they’re wearing them. We want all our pieces to be remarkable in every way, in the hope that this will then pass on to our customers.

“Confidence in dressing is about how you wear the clothes. Don’t let them wear you. A great outfit should make you feel like you can take on the world. And if you want to pick the kids up wearing sequins, then do it!”

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